366: Love is the Absense of Resistance: How to Be in the Present Moment, Let Go of Things That Don’t Matter, Be Open to New Ideas, and Tap Into the Magic of Life with Dating Site Owner and Relationship Expert Mike Krosky

Robert Plank 0:00 Robert Plank, Show Episode 366 Love is the absence of resistance. How to be in the present moment. Let go of things that don't matter, be open to new ideas and tap into the magic of life. With dating site owner and Relationship Expert Mike crosky, Hey everyone, and thanks for tuning in. We're talking right now with dating site owner and Relationship Expert Mike cross key. And so many people have given up on the idea of falling low in love again, but Mike is going to share his knowledge to make dating online better and avoid the pitfalls and obstacles, to avoid the positive mindset you need to be successful. And we're going to talk about, like, the secrets to life and how to love life and all that entails. So Mr. Mike, glad to be talking to you.

Mike Krosky 0:48 Yeah, hi, yeah. I'm really happy to be talking with you. This is really my favorite subject. Is kind of what I'm here for. So I'm really excited to be able to share with your people some ideas around relationships.

Robert Plank 1:00 Awesome. Well, I love ideas about, you know, getting those relationships going and making them better. And I think that a lot of people listening, they might be wondering, oh, wait, like Robert Plank talk like he's doing internet marketing stuff, but now he's talking about dating in relationships. And, you know, I was thinking about this the last few minutes leading up to this, Mr. Mike. And I think that, you know, a lot of people out there, they're either they either like, you know, end up with the wrong person, or end up with whoever is convenient. And then a lot of our audience are sort of work at home entrepreneurs, so they don't have the usual crutches people can fall into, like they might not have a huge circle of friends. They might not have co workers. So this whole online dating thing, even though it was kind of a stigma maybe a decade ago. It seems like it's becoming mainstream. And I think that this is a great chance for some of those sort of lonely, work at home, self employed entrepreneur types to, you know, to find a connection. So I think that there's a lot of things that they can sort of benefit from here.

Mike Krosky 1:56 Well, there certainly is, you know, in though, you know, sometimes the Internet has some stigmas attached to it. The if you look at it in another in from another point of view, from an energetic viewpoint, you realize that the internet is a consciousness, you know, in itself. You know, it's a collective consciousness, of course, of the planet. But there's a really, you know, there's really lots of fun things that can happen. So the internet, perhaps, is, is the greatest search engine that we have available to us, that we're aware of, and then the greater, so to say, search engine that's available to us is to become our own point of attraction for what we're looking for, and what I mean by that, and it's kind of an interesting phenomenon, and you kind of notice this, like, if you're at the coffee shop or talking to some of your friends or even family, you'll start to notice that most people are talking more about what they don't want versus talking about what they want, You know, and when, if you're unaware of that conversation, like you're not thinking about it, it just sounds okay and, and a lot of people have gotten really, really good at talking about what they don't want. I mean, look at our whole news industry, you know. You know, I haven't watched television news for over 30 years now, but I remember watching it, and it was, you know, 95% of it was stuff that you're not really that interested in. So there's something about learning how to start to kind of shift that a little bit. Instead of talking about what we don't want, we start talking about what we do want. And what happens then is that I wrote a email update recently about this subject, and I said that we're all biological magnets. We're unaware of it mostly, but we are and whatever we give our precious, valuable energy to our thinking, to that we will attract to ourselves. And it's quite a, you know, quite a fun and interesting process, once you start to realize how this all works,

Robert Plank 4:04 and a lot of that makes perfect sense to me, that if, if people's tendency is to focus on what they don't want versus what they do want, then that sounds like that really leads to a pattern of kind of acting out of fear, or afraid to take risks because they're kind of holding on, and being sort of scarcity minded and and being sort of doom and gloom, and, you know, being sort of hard on ourselves, and also being kind of collecting these friends that are also downers, and also kind of letting our friends be downers towards us. And that kind of sounds like a recipe for everyone sort of being miserable together. And that doesn't sound like a lot of fun at all, but so, so if people's problem is that they focus on what they don't want, and they end up, kind of ending up on a path towards that direction. I mean, what should people be doing instead? Like, what's the what are the first steps towards, kind of seeing the light and becoming a better person?

Mike Krosky 4:56 Sure, well, one of the things is just to start to learn about. You know. And you know like you're saying misery, misery, you know the old saying, Misery loves company, right? But there's a lot of good old sayings that we say and we repeat them sometimes, and we don't really think about them as much. It's like, you know the old saying about, well, that's water under the bridge. I mean, when something happens, water under the bridge is an old saying that, basically they're saying, let go of it, forget about it, you know, because it's past, it's the past. Now it's water under the bridge. It's not relative anymore, you know. And misery love company. It sounds, it sounds catchy, like a catchy little phrase, but it again, it's a truism, because people do end up gravitating towards and attracting themselves to other people that want to talk around the same thing. So as you're asking, what do you do? Well, you become aware first that you know what I need to start focusing on what I want because what I don't want. If I give that my energy. Here it comes. I remember when I was about 10 years old, and I was complaining to my grandfather about something, and I'm just like, yak yak yak yak complaining and complaining. And eventually my grandfather looked at me, and he said, Michael. He says, You need to learn this about life. He says, whether you say you want something or you say you don't want it, here it comes. And that was it. That's all he said. I'm looking at him like, you know, blinking my eyes, like, what does that mean, right? But I just kind of kept that in my thinking, though, and I kept working that and massaging it. And then over the years, you know, I started to realize, Oh, he's talking about that, you know, we become like a beacon or a point of attraction for whatever we're talking about, whatever we're thinking about, and I've really used that a lot in my life to help guide me. The The thing about this whole thing, though, is that a really important thing is to realize that knowing is not enough. You know, by maybe five or six years old, we almost know enough already that we can get by for the rest of our life with what we know. So knowing is really not enough. What we have to do is we have to practice right? And if we, if we practice, here's an example. Imagine, you know, whatever, how long ago it'd be Now, say 40 or 45 years ago. Maybe, imagine a young, young boy by the name of Michael, bouncing a basketball out in the playground and looking at that hoop way over his head, throwing it up into the air. The ball happens to go in through the basket. And imagine that young boy saying, Oh, now I know what it means to put, you know, to play or to shoot a basketball, right? And that was it. That was the last time you threw the basketball. Then we would not know the name Michael Jordan, because if he only did it one time and said, Oh, okay, now I know, but he realized, even at a young age, that it wasn't about knowing that it was about practicing. So he began to practice and practice and practice. And everybody knows Michael Jordan, you know, it's just still amazing. He hasn't played for like, 15 or 20 years now, and he's still a legend,

Robert Plank 8:10 right? And so what I'm hearing from you from those couple of stories is, number one, sort of what you focus on grows, and you become what you think about and all that. And that could be good or bad. And then the other thing that I'm sort of picking up from that Michael Jordan, story is, is that a lot of people just kind of try stuff, or they just kind of dabble stuff and then leave it at that. And it's like, well, what about the the repetition? You know what I mean, if you want to, you know, if you want to write, write a book, finish the book. Or if you want to be a blogger, you know, finish that. Or if you want to, you know, go, go out and apply for a job. Don't just apply one place and give up. Apply to hundreds of places, just because just one time usually isn't going to cut it, unless you get lucky one time, but then you get lucky one time, you don't know how to repeat it when you need to do it again. So a lot of that makes sense and really resonates with me.

Mike Krosky 8:56 Yeah, you know, and practice is a very, very important thing, but we also want to practice the right things. Because, if you know, if you're practicing, you know, systems or strategies that aren't working well, that's not going to help you out much either. You know, think about, you know, Jordan is a great example of lots of things. I mean, think about him. And you know, when he was a young in middle school and high school and stuff, and you know, he was just like doing okay, and even in college. I mean, he was a good player, but he wasn't Michael Jordan, you know, this is a guy that shot the basketball over 1000 shots every day for probably about 20 years, 20 years, you know, and he got to the place that he went from what I call, uh, mental mechanical. He went from mental mechanical into the magical, mystical side of life. And that's a whole another dimension, really, you know. And you know, people used to go and watch him play, because they it's fun to watch people that are playing, doing the magical, mystical thing. It's like, wow, look at that. That, wow, wow, wow. I still remember him in one of the playoff games. He took this shot, and it went up, went in. He's going up the court. He knew the cameras on him. He just looked at the camera. Kind of puts his hands up in the air like, I have no idea how that went in, you know, because he was in the magical, mystical zone. And a lot of you know, the the athletes that get into those places, they they call it the zone, right? How'd you do that? I don't know. I was in the zone. They don't really have a good way of explaining it. But if you can imagine, most of this planet works on Think about something, figure it out, and work hard. Work hard. Work hard. Think about it. Figure it out. Work hard, work hard. And then there's a part of this planet that these people are operating in, the magical, mystical thing, that it's just they do stuff, and you're like, Wow, that's amazing. How did he do that? You know? So that's another aspect that they can use also towards attracting the right person to them, is get out of the mental part of it, so much the mechanical and just start, kind of like vibrating, becoming this, this, like I said, like a beacon that's going to attract to yourself what you want.

Robert Plank 11:11 And so, how do people get into the zone? Because, as as you're explaining that what sort of kind of gets in my head is, you know, Michael Jordan, he, he repeated this so many times that, you know, playing basketball, like, became automatic, and he doesn't have to think about it in his subconscious takes over, and he probably like sleep, sleeps and has dreams about playing basketball to kind of get on a whole other level. And it kind of makes me think about, you know, like, when we all first learned to drive a car, it was hard to even just, like, not crash the dang thing, right? Like, do I have my foot on the brake, I'm looking at my mirrors, but then after a certain point, it doesn't even take that long, but after a certain point, it's like, now you're driving, and I kind of becomes automatic, and you're thinking more in terms of, like, what route am I going to take, or what's happening, you know, five cars ahead, or what's this other traffic doing? And so, I mean, is there a secret so kind of getting in that zone?

Mike Krosky 11:58 Yeah, there actually is, you know. And I think that with a lot of the pro athletes, even with Michael, I think that if you said, What is the zone, I don't know that he could put it into words, you know, because they was just in the zone, and, you know, maybe that was good enough at the time, but, but I can put it into words because I understand the process very well. And what you're looking at is being in the zone, is what some people, like Eckhart touli, for example, calls being in the moment. Be, be in the now, right, the present moment in time. So when you know in life, most people are either having a little bit of a conversation about something that happened in the past, or they're having a little bit of conversation about something that's going to happen in the future. But both of those types of conversations pulls us away from being in the exact present moment in time. So when you get a Michael Jordan or Tiger Woods or an Einstein or a Tesla or, you know, a famous musician, you know John Lennon, or whoever out there, and you see them doing this stuff that's magical. It's because they're in the exact moment in time they have focused themselves. So for example, with Jordan, what he used to do is he would go through a meditative, kind of contemplative state of mine before he went out on the court. And when he got out on the court, he was, he was already there. He's in the zone, and that's probably how he's going to play the whole game. So, you know, people would watch him for a couple hours, just like, Wow, that's amazing. Like, how does someone do that? Well, you do that by being in the zone. So how do you get there on a regular basis? Is through, is through, you know, meditation, contemplation, learning how to focus your energy. You know, trusting. One of the things I say to people a lot is that you learn how to trust the natural process of life and love you. You know, you actually trust it, versus saying, Well, I kind of trust it a little bit, but I still going to make it work out myself. I'm still going to push a little harder than it needs to be pushed. And it's not about that. It's about trusting. Look, when he shoots the ball right, how soft he is, relaxed. There's no effort. It's just this flowing motion, and it ball just goes in. It goes in, in part, through his intention, through what he's already seeing in his imagination, you know. And you can do that in any area of life, yeah.

Robert Plank 14:27 And I can definitely relate to a lot of that sort of stuff in that, you know, being so much in the zone or in the present moment where things kind of become natural. Like, I think we've all been in that situation where maybe if we were like giving a talk. We were like, writing a blog post or something like that. It like we get to a point where sometimes things just sort of flow out of us, or we kind of just like, turn off, and things just like, kind of happen on their own. And it makes me really think to like, I remember one time when I was maybe 20 years old in college, and I was, I was mixing juice like you, like you go to the. Grocery store, you get like, little frozen canister of like, juice. And yeah, you put it in a pitcher and it says, like, fill like, four and one thirds cups of water in this stir it around, you get some juice. And I remember, I was like, 20 years old. I put in the frozen thing and in the pitcher, and I was filling up cans of water, and I realized, like, I'm so, like, spread thin and multitasking and scatterbrain that I couldn't even count for canisters of water. There I was, like, my mind was racing to all these different things and, like, you know, school stuff that was due that I was like, oh, did I pour in two cups or three cups into this picture? And it sounds like a really silly thing, like, oh, you can't even count to four, but I can definitely relate to just like having so much noise, having so much going on, or a head that we were like, so focused on the future or the past that we can't even enjoy the present. And that just sounds like a recipe for just like always being always not being there. And it doesn't sound like fun at

Mike Krosky 15:52 all, right, exactly when you get into the present moment, then other stuff becomes available to you. Example, yesterday, I was doing some stuff around the house, and I'm just doing it. I'm in the zone, you know, my mind is quiet, and all sudden, boom, oh, I should call my sister. And I call my sister, you know? And the phone rings, and she picks it up, and she says, No way. I go, what's that? And she goes, John and I were just talking about, they're in Connecticut, right? It's corn season, right? With all love corn on the cob. This is John. And I were just talking about eating corn on the cob and saying, Boy, Michael would be loved it, you know, would love to be here right now. And then the phone rang, you know. And John looked at me when it rang. Is it? No way. He was like, anyway, so, but that happens, you know? And it just happens because it's just natural, because we are all connected. We are all related. I have, I have my girlfriend from Thailand visiting me right now, and about three weeks ago, same kind of thing, I'm in the office, and also I just had this feeling. So I skype her, you know, and she's frantically looking through her purse and doing this stuff. And I go, what's the manager? I can't find my car keys, and I gotta go eat breakfast with my girlfriends. I said, Okay, hold on, just a second. And I just totally relaxed. And I can't tell you how I did it. Other than that, I relaxed, and I said to her, I said, they're in the kitchen by the sink. And she walked in the kitchen, and they were exactly to the left hand side of the sink. And she says, How did you do that? And I said, I just relaxed. That was it. I mean, that's and it just, and it just came to me, you know. And not like, you know, I like, not like, I could go on Johnny Carson and do it on a regular basis, I don't think, but it happens like that sometimes when you just get into that space, you know, for Jordan, it was playing basketball for woods, it was golf or whoever else. It's their own thing. But, you know, everybody's Einstein said that everybody's got, everybody's a genius in their own way, and you just got to find your own talent, your own gift, you know? And it's like that, yeah,

Robert Plank 17:56 I completely agree. And I think we've all kind of, at one point or another, maybe experience those sort of spooky moments where just, like, geez, like, I just tapped into something there. And so as you were explaining this, I'm sort of curious. Like, Were you always this, like, put together? Did you always have the world to figure out, figured out, more or less, or, like, did it take some time to transform into this? Did you kind of go through like, a rough patch or a dark period or anything like that.

Mike Krosky 18:22 No, it's been, it's an ongoing, expansive process for everyone. I mean, think about the universe, right? The galaxies are flying apart from each other. It's something like 500 million miles an hour, or something unbelievable, something that's totally unimaginable, right? I mean, recently they, you know, like, because of the Hubble, deep, deep space photography and stuff like that. Recently they realized they go, Well, you know, we used to think that there were about 200 million galaxies in the universe, but now, with this new information, we realize that there's more, like two or 3 trillion galaxies in this universe. And what they'll eventually find out is that that number is not right, either that it's like an infinite number, probably, or something, you know. So there's, there's some the picture is so much bigger than what we're what our cultural thing is about. And I'll tell you where, when this started for me was, and I was a kid back in the, you know, late 60s when kung fu came on television with David Carradine, you know, this is way before your time. But it was a fun, fun show. But it was really interesting because they were, you know, they had these Chinese Master, master po and master Chang, I think it was, and, you know, the Kung Fu part of it was like, Okay, that's all right. But the philosophy stuff, like, I noticed that I was interested in what they had to say, you know, and I started to think about stuff. So even from that younger age, you know, I just started to think about stuff. And I, you know, the show kind of created a realization that this cultural. Thing that we're living in right now, that they tell us what to do, how to do, how to learn, how to study, how to all that stuff, that there was more information, a lot more information beyond that. So I just kind of just opened up to that and realized there's a lot of ways doing it more than one thing can been, can be right at the same time, there's not just one right thing, and these kind of, you know, thoughts, and this way of thinking just allows you to get out of your mental part and then out into what's out there. Example to being like with with Nikolai Tesla, right, people were saying, man, you're you're probably the smartest man of this last 100 years, and your brain is so magnificent. And Tesla said, yeah, he goes, I have a brain, but the difference between me and you is that I realize that my brain is like a is like a radio receiver, and it receives the infinite intelligence of the universe like, I'm open for it. I'm a channel for that infinite intelligence of the universe. You know, that's why he had like, five or 600 patents that people look at nowadays, and no one can even understand what the heck is talking about. Like, they don't even know what, what's he talking right? What's he mean? And Einstein used to do the exact same thing, you know, the exact type of things Einstein would go into focused meditations for six, eight hours, he'd come out of meditation, and then he'd walk over to the chalkboard and he'd just start writing. It was just flowing through him from the universe. So the picture is so much bigger than the cultural situation that we're focusing on and got our heads all wrapped around. And when you can get outside of the cultural training, then also you start making yourself available for the other stuff,

Robert Plank 21:45 awesome stuff. And what I'm sort of getting from for me saying all that is, you know, back when I was a kid, and I thought about, you know, smart people, or what it was to be smart, I think, like my sort of child understanding of that was, Oh, someone who's like, read a lot of books, and, you know, has a lot of stuff to say. But, you know, as I kind of get older, I kind of realize sort of what you're saying there in that, like, the the smartest people are the ones that are like, you know, kind of kind of humble or quiet, or the ones that are like, just listening more than they're talking, and are kind of just like, like, taking the time to to wait for that big idea, or let the idea come to them, and not necessarily just like, you know, pounding it with brute force, or staying awake for three days, and just kind of like, you know, being sort of humble and open and like letting things come to you, sort of like you we began our talk talking about, you know, being like a beacon, as opposed to just being this person that goes out and causes all this chaos. So that's kind of what I'm hearing from you, is that, like the these people who are really like, you know, smart and wise and enlightened and stuff like that, they're, they're more focused on kind of what comes to them, and being open and knowing that they don't know everything. Because, I mean, the universe is so dang huge. How could you know everything? Right? Exactly?

Mike Krosky 22:57 You know, there's so much more going on than we're aware of and, you know, again, when we can become a receiver for the things that we're interested in, and we can become a receiver through the absence of, you know, here's a great definition for for love. Love is the absence of resistance. So when you start looking at, well, I want to find my love. I want to be in love. I want to get married. I want to do all this stuff. Great, we'll start. Let's start taking a look and notice where, where and what things that we're resisting in life, and realizing that when I can let go of that stuff, when I can stop resisting life. So to say, then all of a sudden, I make myself available to everything that's out there. Same thing with enlightenment. You could say, you know, people go, Oh, I want to find enlightenment. Well, enlightenment is the absence of resistance too. So if you want to become enlightened in your own spirit, in your world that you came into, let go, let go of the resistance. And when you let go of the resistance, then you'll notice, wait a minute, I didn't have to figure anything out today. Wow, that was nice. Instead of having, Oh, I gotta figure all this out. No, you don't. You don't have to figure it out. You can just let it happen through your consciousness and through your awareness and through your love and joy and appreciation of life.

Robert Plank 24:20 Great stuff. And so it's what I'm hearing a lot of. There is so, so let, let go, let it happen. Don't have that resistance. And also sort of, sort of built into that, is what I'm hearing is that maybe a lot of people are maybe stuck in their rigid ways, and they're always doing things the way that they've always done them. And maybe it would help a lot of people to maybe shake things up and maybe, like, just like, try something small and different in their life, whether that's, you know, trying online dating, or maybe it's, you know, working on that book or working on that website, or getting with a different partner or trying a new job. I think that, you know, a lot of people like you said they're like, they're kind of, they have that resistance to change, and if they just, like, changed a couple quick things in their. Life if they started doing that the meditation, like you said, or like, tried to be in the present moment, I think that a lot of people would benefit just from experimenting and, like, just trying new things in their life that they normally wouldn't do.

Mike Krosky 25:12 Yeah, you know, when I, when I got involved with cherry blossoms, I was in Houston, Texas, and I had done a variety of different jobs, and I was kind of, you know, trying to find my own way. And at that time, actually, I was working, I was managing a Chinese vegetarian restaurant. It just came, it just fell into my thing, and it was doing it. It was great. And then I met this guy, you know, and then I kind of got to this point that I was thinking about life, and I thought, you know, the most important thing in life for me is, is love. That's the most important thing. And I'd like to give my time, my energy, to that conversation and what, however it shows up. You know, they didn't know what that would be like, so I was looking at some different ways, or whatever. And then all of a sudden, I met this guy who did the my town home project area play called town home project, whatever the word is. You know, the town homes that I lived in, and this guy's name was Joe, and he was, like, this average guy. He was 57 years old, as average as any guy could be. And him and I are just talking about something, and I'm at this time, I'm like, 34 and all healthy and fit and tanned and all that stuff, right? So we're talking blah, blah, blah. And then all of a sudden this beautiful woman starts walking towards us, and I'm kind of like, looking behind me, like, is, you know, she walking? She looking at because she's looking right over at us. I'm like, Who's she looking at? You know? And here she comes. Here she comes. And I'm like, going, oh man, finally here she is, you know, and she comes, and she puts her arms around Joe, and my jaw, I'm trying to keep my jaw from falling down completely, right? I'm looking at Joe, and I'm looking at her, and I'm looking at Joe, and I'm looking at her, and he introduces my wife. She's from the Philippines, and I don't remember her name now, but she's 28 years old and all these things. And I just, I was like, my gosh, how did this happen? So anyways, Off she goes. And I looked at Joe and says, Joe, if you don't mind me asking, How did you meet your beautiful wife? He says, well, a company called cherry blossoms. I said, Please tell me more, you know, and he, surely, he shared this publication. They used to do a magazine, and he shared the publication that he wrote to her through, and, you know, got in contact. He's just, they used to just send letters back and forth. And I got the publication from him, and I contacted them, and they sent me their new one, and I started having some ideas around all this. And this was like 9394 I guess, you know, the internet's just starting to come in. I thought, man, these guys should be on the internet. So I contacted them, and I said, Hey, I'd like to put you guys on the internet. I says, you know, are you there yet? And they said, No. I says, Well, that's what I do. So I'd like to get you guys onto the internet. And I says, I'll do it at my own expense. We'll do some kind of a management agreement. And they said, Sure, sounds great. So I mean, I packed my stuff and I went to, I went to Hawaii, you know, and after working on it for a little bit with them, I realized it'd be better to try to buy the company, so I did, and then end up buying the company and then putting them on the internet, but it just came from that saying to myself, I want to work in this field. This is important to me, and not resisting stuff. And it just came to me, boom, all sudden, there's the opportunity, you know, and that's how life shows up, just like that.

Robert Plank 28:33 Super cool. I mean, what a great story. And I imagine that for a lot of people out there, a lot of people have all these opportunities that are like dropping in their laps. But I think some people maybe don't even notice they're there because they're too busy, you know, focusing on other things. So I think that's a really important lesson to be kind of open to these ideas. When they come to us, that way, we can act on them. And the other thing I'm sort of hearing from your thought process there was that a lot of good ideas come from combining things that maybe aren't normally combined. I mean, right now, you know, internet dating is like a thing that's been done quite a bit, but back in the 90s, I mean, that was a rarity. And, I mean, I think about things like, whoever had the idea to combine a clock and a cell phone hopefully got like, $100 million because I think that's like the best idea ever. But like, what a simple thing, right? So should have, like, just these common things all combined into one or combining two things to have another idea. So, I mean, really powerful stuff, and I don't want to keep you for too long, but sort of as we're winding down here. I mean, do you have any like, like, final messages for listeners, or do you want to send people over to cherry blossoms or any other websites? I mean, that it's kind of like winding down sort of time is yours? I mean, whatever you want to kind of say as we're wrapping up, feel free. Yeah.

Mike Krosky 29:48 Well, thanks. You know, cherry blossoms is a great website. You know, we've got many, many men and women there from from all over the world. You know, mostly it's for international dating, but International. Dating lets you get into a slightly different environment, you know, if you're, say, a 40 or 50 year old guy, even 60 year old guy, whatever. And, you know, and you're looking around your neighborhood, or your your town, your city, your state, and you're just kind of shaking your head, going, you know, I'm not really getting fired up by a lot of my dating choices in my in my town. Then you start looking outside of your town a little bit, you know. And the phenomenon that happens on cherry blossoms is that guys that are willing to go, for example, to the Philippines and go meet a gal over there, they often are able to find a woman that's maybe 1520, 25, years younger than they are, and these women are just absolutely looking for a good man, a kind and caring man who's coming home every day that's, you know, going to take care if they're a younger woman that they want to have a family with them. And their choices are just phenomenal. I mean, they they will absolutely be amazed by the beauty and splendor and kindness and caring of these different cultures from around the world. So it's a great place to be, and they can go to cherry blossoms.com and register for free and take a look. Perfect.

Robert Plank 31:14 Well, that seems like a great a great place to end. And I think cherry blossoms.com is a great place for people to go if you're kind of stuck in a rut, looking to mix things up, looking to try something new, take a risk. Expand your horizons. Whatever saying you want to say, like you mentioned, there's all those sayings out there, or whatever saying gets you to try something new. Give it a shot. Sherry blossoms.com, and I mean, try it if you're a worker, home, entrepreneur, or maybe we even found this podcast episode. You were just looking for the secrets to love or the secrets to life. Well, then, now that you heard some of Mike's amazing wisdom, go to the website of the guy who created this school platform, or took over this cool platform, made it way better. So cherry blossoms, calm. Go ahead and check it out. And thanks, Mr. Mike, for sharing just a number your wisdom on a number of subjects from, you know, getting in the zone, being happy, being fulfilled, finding the right person, all kinds of good stuff for us to think about for maybe even years to come. So I appreciate you. I appreciate your knowledge, and thanks for stopping by and sharing some of this stuff.

Mike Krosky 32:14 Yeah, my great pleasure. If anybody does log on at the if they use a promo code, they could use CB, as in, cherry blossoms, CB Mike, and they can get a $10 discount off of any membership that they offer as well. Great

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